Showing posts with label Missions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Missions. Show all posts

Friday, December 11, 2009

Last year's Advent Conspiracy video was shared all over the web. If you didn't see it, click here. This year they have a new one. Enjoy.




Wednesday, July 1, 2009

This is day five of our "Simple Ways to Support Missionaries" series. To catch up please click on the following links: Praying, Communicating, Volunteering, Care Packages.

Day five is about welcoming missionaries back to their home countries. Different organizations have different policies regarding "home assignment", but typically missionaries have spent 2-4 years out of their home countries and are going to experience a level of readjustment or "culture shock".

There are some ways that we can help them through these transitions:

1. Start before they show up. Be in communication, ask their needs. One concern I've heard from missionary parents is finding friends for their children during this temporary stay in their home country. If you have children of similar ages, getting them in touch before hand might help to give them friendships to look forward to. Often returning missionaries have a slew of logistics to work through - housing, transportation, schooling for children, speaking engagements, medical check-ups, etc... Learn their needs and be on the look out for ways to meet those needs.

2. Educate them. By this I mean, let them know what is happening in your church, the neighborhood that they are moving into, the school they intend to send their children to, local politics or whatever you think might be significant to their time at home. Send them newspaper clippings or church bulletins, fliers about upcoming activities or local fairs. The list goes on and on.

3. Prepare for them. My parents always felt so blessed to show up, exhausted after long flights, to our church's mission home with beds already made and a well-stocked fridge and pantry. See if there are ways you can provide for their basic needs. Most families might not be ready for a meal invitation in the first week (or maybe they would?), but taking over a frozen meal or homemade bread might be just the right thing.

4. Welcome them. Depending on your relationship and their family situation, descending en mass to the airport to greet them might not be the best idea, but have a welcome card waiting for them. Include a list of helpful phone numbers. Fresh flowers are also an uplifting greeting.

Today was our last day, and while this is in no way an exhaustive list of how to support missionaries, I hope it has helped to inspire you to be more purposeful in using your time, finances and creativity to encourage those living and ministering in foreign countries. I know I have been challenged to face my short-comings. With the way the world's economy seems to be headed, it is not going to be easier to make these choices, but it will be more necessary than ever. May God bless you as He uses you to bless others.

Photo from flickr.com

Monday, June 29, 2009

This is day four of our "Simple Ways to Support Missionaries" series. To catch up please click on the following links: Praying, Communicating, Volunteering.

Today our means of support requires a little more work and money, but it is such an encouragement to people. We all love getting personal letters in the mail - how much more so, packages! I remember how exciting it was to get a box from the states. Not only did we examine every item, we would sit there and smell the box because it "smelled like America."

Here are some ideas to make this a little more feasible:

1. Schedule it. Decide how often you want to send something and put it on your calendar with reminders ahead of time to be preparing. Christmas and Easter are great times to send gifts.

2. Keep it simple. Don't feel like you have to fill up a great, big box. Even filling pre-paid envelopes with a few seasoning mixes or blank cards will be appreciated.

3. Build up. If you find something that you like on sale and it's worth sending, buy two. Or even consider those "buy one, get one free" offers as opportunities to be preparing gifts. Keep these in a box under your bed or in your closet and slowly accumulate a variety of items.

4. Enlist help. See if other people in your church or mutual friends of "your" missionaries would like to work together on this project. It will definitely give you more motivation to get it done and out the door, not to mention the advantage of shared finances.

5. Save up. If you do want to go bigger, work together as a family to save your spare change in a jar. Use the change to purchase gifts and pay for postage.

The world is shrinking, so very often it is possible to find imported items from western countries or local versions, but some things are just not quite the same in condition or quality or price. Here is a limited list of ideas of what people might like (keep in mind that some things will be restricted in creative-access countries):

Seasoning Packets
Flavored teas and coffees
Unique baking decorations/Flavorings
Candy
Holiday decorations
Scented candles
Lotions/Soaps/Pampering items
Blank/Thank you cards
Books
CDs
DVDs
Sermons on audio
Art/Craft supplies
Homemade gifts

I'm sure there are many, many more things unique to each situation. If you don't plan a surprise, then you can always ask the missionaries what they would like.

Again, this one takes a lot of discipline, but it is awfully fun to send off a package and imagine how excited they will be to receive it on the other end. It is also an excellent way to involve your children and teach them the value of giving.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

This is day three of our "Simple Ways to Support Missionaries" series. To catch up please click on the following links: Praying, Communicating.

Sometimes one of the more difficult and awkward things about living overseas is finding someone back in the home country to handle those unavoidable details of life that can't be done from far away. Most missionaries I know have family members who do these tedious tasks because they ARE hard to impose on others. However, being aware of the needs and being willing to give of your time to help could certainly bless someone. Just keep in mind that due to the personal or legal nature of some needs, not everyone can take you up on your offers.
  1. Permanent mailing address - getting all their business, personal or junk mail and either storing it for their return or periodically sending it overseas in bulk.
  2. Letter coordinator - printing, stuffing and mailing prayer letters on their behalf.
  3. Email coordinator - (creative access countries) being the email 'go-between' who edits sensitive content between missionaries and their supporters.
  4. Errand boy - offering (repeatedly) to run those errands that can't easily get done from far away - probably most would be legal in nature and something that would require special authorization, but it never hurts to offer.
  5. Phone Caller - sometimes it is hard to research information or get in touch with offices/businesses when you live half-way around the world. Having someone to be willing to make those calls could be very helpful.
  6. There are probably many more ways to help for specialized cases or things I haven't thought of, so just generally offering your services will definitely be appreciate - even if not taken up.
As is human nature, people are more willing to accept help from those whom they feel they have a relationship with. If you really want to help, it's best if you maintain some level of communication with "your" missionaries.

Remember, as in all acts of service, do it "heartily, as to the Lord and not unto men" knowing that you are "storing up treasures in heaven." It is very likely you will receive no earthly reward or even acknowledgment for what you do. It is possible that you might be taken advantage of or go un-thanked, but that's not why we do what we do. Did I say this was "simple"?...hmm.

Photograph from ideachampions.com

Thursday, June 25, 2009

This is day two of our "Simple Ways to Support Missionaries" series. To catch up please click on the following link: Praying.

A very simple, inexpensive way to encourage missionaries is to stay in communication with them. Simple - but requiring discipline.

I know that after years of sending out update letters to friends and family, I've always appreciated it when people respond. Most often it is just a short note to say they are praying or that they received the update, but nonetheless it is nice to know that someone took time to read the letter that you spent a good amount of time putting together.

With all the technology these days, it is easier and easier to stay in touch, yet perhaps because of the ease, it is just as simple to forget to do so or put it off. Putting "correspondence" on your to-do list or calendar may be the best way to commit to this act of support. Write their birthdays down where you will see them in time to send a greeting. Another possibility would be to discipline yourself to respond immediately after receiving and reading their newsletters. As I write this, I am feeling convicted myself... I'm not a good communicator. One of my weaknesses is reading a letter between chores or in a hurry to get the news rather then waiting for a moment when I would have time to respond as necessary. I keep birthdays on my calendar, but I don't plan ahead to send a note on that special day. Like I said... it takes discipline.

There are a variety of ways to communicate these days - some more or less feasible depending on the situations with those you deal with:
  1. Emails
  2. Skyping
  3. Phone calls
  4. Notes on Facebook
  5. Comments on their blogs or websites
  6. Sending postcards/cards
  7. Even letter writing - we all love getting hand-written letters and it is becoming a lost art these days.
  8. Arranging a Penpal correspondence if you have children the same age
Just a reminder... if you have friends working in creative access countries, be careful to watch what you say or write - keeping away from spiritual or political topics except in code. We wouldn't want our act of love to jeopardize those ministries.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

This is day one of our "Simple Ways to Support Missionaries" series.

One of the biggest ways most missionaries would request your involvement is through prayer. When dealing with difficulties, discouragement or opposition, knowing that there are people praying is a huge source of comfort and encouragement.

A danger we often have is promising to pray for people, but quickly forgetting or just letting the days slip by. One way I've seen many families try to remain faithful in this is through the use of prayer cards (not just exclusively for missionaries). We have a list of people that we pray for - one a day - at our breakfast table. When I was single, I had a notebook of names with a few prayer points next to them and I would pray for one or two names each day during my quiet time.

Most missionary update letters have a list of prayer points included that can help us to know how to pray. Otherwise, my top three prayers for people would probably be: 1. A steadfast walk with God, 2. Good relationships (family, cross-cultural, teammates, etc..) 3. Ministry specifics.

One goal I would like to reach is not only praying for the people on the card that turn up each day, but taking a couple minutes to jot them a quick email or facebook note to let them know that they are in our thoughts. Unfortunately, communication is not my forte, so this would be a real challenge until it became a habit.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

I was challenged a while ago by a guest speaker at our church who was a finance advisor to missionaries. He made a point to encourage the congregation that supporting missionaries is more than just writing a check each month or setting up direct debit. As their brothers and sisters who have sent them out, we need to be there to support their emotional and relational needs as well as financial. It is so easy to fall into the "out of sight, out of mind" syndrome and even more so when we can't relate to or imagine their foreign lifestyles.

From my personal experience living overseas, I have felt both the love of generous people giving of their time and resources on my behalf as well as the discouragement of feeling 'alone' or out of touch.

For the next couple of weeks, I will be giving five suggestions for simple ways that we can support missionaries beyond giving our tithe.

A couple points I would like to encourage:
  1. Commit to do this as a family and involve your children in it.
  2. Don't try to support everyone you know, or you will probably end up supporting none. Choose a family or two to focus on and bless in this ministry.
Just to clarify, in this series, I'm predominately focusing on missionaries who are living outside their "home" countries. If you are a missionary reading this, I would love to hear how you would feel most blessed in our support. If you are someone who already supports missionaries, I want to know your suggestions on how we can better encourage these fellow laborers. If you are neither, then I hope we can encourage you to consider finding a way to be involved.

For more reading on this topic, good ideas can be found at Adopt a Missionary.